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Music for Quiet Time: Cultivating Moments of Peace in a Busy Household

Music for Quiet Time: Cultivating Moments of Peace in a Busy Household
In the hustle and bustle of a busy household, finding moments of tranquility can feel like a distant dream. The constant hum of activities, the buzz of conversations, and the ever-present background noise can make it challenging to carve out peaceful interludes. However, one effective and often overlooked tool can help you cultivate these moments of calm: music.

The Power of Music

Music has a profound impact on our emotions and mental state. It has the ability to soothe, uplift, and transport us to a place of serenity. Whether it’s the gentle strumming of an acoustic guitar, the soft melodies of a piano, or the calming sounds of nature, music can create an atmosphere of peace and relaxation. My toddler's mood is SO impacted by music, and I use this to my advantage often!

Choosing the Right Music

Selecting the right music for quiet time is essential. Here are some genres and tips to help you create a calming playlist:

Classical Music

Classical music is known for its timeless compositions and structured yet soothing nature. It can help slow down a racing mind and promote a sense of order and calm. Some examples include:
  • Mozart’s “Piano Concerto No. 21”: A beautiful, calming piece that soothes the soul.
  • Beethoven’s “Moonlight Sonata”: Its gentle and flowing melodies create a peaceful ambiance.
  • Bach’s “Air on the G String”: Perfect for creating a serene and relaxing environment.

Ambient Music

Ambient music focuses on creating an atmospheric and immersive experience. It often features gentle rhythms, subtle melodies, and soothing textures. Artists like Brian Eno and Moby are well-known for their ambient compositions. Some examples include:
  • Brian Eno’s “Music for Airports”: An iconic ambient album perfect for relaxation.
  • Moby’s “Long Ambients 1: Calm. Sleep.”: Specifically designed to aid in sleep and relaxation.
  • Aphex Twin’s “Selected Ambient Works Volume II”: A collection of deeply soothing ambient tracks. (I don't really like these personally, but that's okay! Each person can find their own most calming music!)

Nature Sounds

Incorporating sounds of nature, such as ocean waves, rain, or birdsong, can instantly transport you to a peaceful environment. These sounds can be found in dedicated nature soundtracks or as part of ambient music compositions. Some examples include:
  • “Ocean Waves: Nature Sounds for Relaxation”: Ideal for creating a calming seaside atmosphere.
  • “Rainforest Sounds”: Brings the serene sounds of a lush forest to your home.
  • “Thunderstorm Sounds”: Perfect for those who find the sound of rain and thunder soothing.

Acoustic and Instrumental

Soft acoustic guitar, piano, and instrumental music can create a cozy and calming ambiance. Artists like Ludovico Einaudi and Acoustic Alchemy offer beautiful instrumental pieces that are perfect for quiet moments. Some examples include:
  • Ludovico Einaudi’s “Nuvole Bianche”: A hauntingly beautiful piano piece.
  • Acoustic Alchemy’s “The Beautiful Game”: Smooth and relaxing acoustic guitar.
  • Yiruma’s “River Flows in You”: A gentle and calming piano melody.

Chillout and Downtempo

These genres blend elements of electronic music with slower tempos and relaxing beats. Artists like Bonobo and Zero 7 create tracks that are ideal for unwinding after a long day. Some examples include:
  • Bonobo’s “Black Sands”: A mix of electronic and acoustic elements for a relaxing experience.
  • Zero 7’s “In the Waiting Line”: A soothing downtempo track perfect for relaxation.
  • Thievery Corporation’s “The Richest Man in Babylon”: A chillout track with a world music influence.
Check out the playlist of all of the above options here!

Creating a Musical Sanctuary

To make the most of music for quiet time, consider these tips for creating a musical sanctuary in your home:
1. Designate a Quiet Space: Choose a room or corner of your home where you can retreat to listen to your calming playlist. This space should be free from distractions and interruptions.
2. Use Quality Speakers or Headphones: Invest in good-quality speakers or noise-canceling headphones to fully immerse yourself in the music. The clarity and richness of sound can enhance the calming effect. For kids and toddlers, the toniebox can be a PERFECT tool for this!
3. Set a Routine: Incorporate music into your daily routine as a signal for quiet time. Whether it’s in the morning before the household wakes up or in the evening after dinner, establishing a regular time for peaceful music can help create a habit of relaxation.
4. Mindful Listening: Practice mindful listening by focusing on the music and allowing it to wash over you. Close your eyes, take deep breaths, and let the melodies guide you to a state of calm.

Benefits for the Whole Family

Introducing quiet time music to your household can benefit everyone. It can serve as a cue for children to settle down and engage in quiet activities like reading or drawing. For adults, it can provide a much-needed break from the demands of daily life, reducing stress and promoting mental well-being. In a busy household, moments of peace can be hard to come by. However, by harnessing the power of music, you can create a sanctuary of calm amidst the chaos. With the right playlist and a dedicated space, you can cultivate quiet moments that rejuvenate the mind and soothe the soul. So, take a deep breath, press play, and let the music guide you to tranquility. By optimizing your choice of music and creating a peaceful environment, you can transform even the busiest household into a haven of relaxation and serenity.


This is my health story

 

I have always been sensitive. That's a word that has described me, my body in particular, my whole life. I have skin sensitivities to fabrics, bruise easily, I get cold easily, I tend to be on "alert" all of the time (no coffee needed here!), I'm a musician and very creative, and I don't even THINK about using any conventional personal care or other products that are scented... they bother my skin, and they bother my respiratory system too. I've never been able to use any scented products because of the discomfort and increased sensitivity they cause. I can't be around people who wear perfume or scented deodorant, because I can't breathe well and my head has discomfort. I can't go into a public bathroom that has been just cleaned because of the toxic chemicals they used to clean it. I can't enjoy candles or most lotions or makeup like most women I know because I'm sensitive to it.

During my first semester of college, I started to develop debilitating discomfort in my jaw, which I was later told is TMJD or temporomandibular joint dysfunction, not just the kind of little twinge when you bite down on something too hard, but long-lasting aching, along with clicking and cracking. It was exacerbated by singing, gum-chewing, caffeine, and other things, and I was easily able to cut out all of the things listed on my doctor's list except for one -- singing. I was a vocal music education major, and singing was my livelihood (or at least soon-to-be), so I couldn't just not practice! I struggled so hard for 2.5 years through long choir rehearsals, voice lessons, practice sessions, and more. By the end of the day, it would be so bad that I'd almost be in tears. My roommates and boyfriend (and his roommates!), bless their servant hearts, would bring me freezing cold ice packs to numb my face enough so that I could fall asleep at least, though I would wake up in the night unable to fall back asleep due to other sleep issues I also was dealing with.

It seemed like a vicious cycle that I needed to stop. Maybe I needed to change majors and give up my dream of making music, of teaching others to make music too. Maybe I needed to pick something that didn't require so much singing and talking. Even smiling a lot bothered me, so maybe I needed to pick a major or job with less human interaction. But THAT idea broke my heart. I didn't enjoy any of the things I could think of! My boyfriend at the time (now husband!) and I had many conversations about what I should do... singing was part of the fabric of my BEING. I am MADE to sing. If you know me, you know that hardly an hour went by without me humming or singing some little tune. But my jaw bothered me so much most of the time that I needed to change SOMETHING. But what?

And that's when change came...

I found some natural and pretty simple solutions -- though simple doesn't always mean easy! It required a LOT of discipline and self-control on my part.

I'm blessed now to have so many versatile tools in my tool box for any emotion, body system, or issue I may be experiencing. So, where am I now? Healthier than I’ve EVER been. I have NO jaw issues anymore when I keep up my self-created protocol. I sleep through the night. I feel so much better now that I'm sleeping more and deeper. I've spent 4 years now working through the emotional issues I faced in early career, and I am so happy that I can now FEEL emotions without feeling completely run-over and frozen by emotions. I’m also happy to say that I have only had little illnesses since finding solutions, not the constant strep throat and other illnesses I was getting at least once per month before! And, that’s saying a lot as I was constantly around germs while working full time with 500+ elementary students. But once I started supporting my immune system, I stopped getting sick every couple of weeks. I can clean with the most amazing smelling cleaner without coughing. I can wear my own homemade "perfume" and get compliments, and not only does it smell good, it supports my body systems. I can use amazing smelling shampoo now! I can have twice as much energy for the day without drinking any coffee or sugary drink. When I started having these successes, I was at first in disbelief, and now in awe at all that God's created, I believe, and given us for our good. Now these are my first line of defense, my go-tos, the first thing I do when something is off, which is not very often anymore (usually just when the weather changes, ah MN life).


I look forward to living a beautiful life of freedom and feeling empowered every single day, enjoying the life I was meant to live. That life includes sharing my story of overcoming and helping you also find better, safer solutions to overcome your daily struggles.

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