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5 Essential Skills Your Child Needs Before Starting a Musical Instrument

5 Essential Skills Your Child Needs Before Starting a Musical Instrument
Considering music lessons for your child?

Before diving into instrumental training, it's important to ensure they have a solid foundation. This follow-up to the popular blog post "What Every Child Should Know Before Beginning to Play a Musical Instrument" explores five important skills that will prepare your child for a successful musical journey.

1. Active Listening: Understanding Music's Components

Active listening involves engaging with music beyond passive hearing. It's a fundamental skill for aspiring musicians that can be developed through:
  • Exploring diverse musical genres and discussing what your child hears.
  • Identifying different instruments within a piece while listening -- from solo to multi-instrument ensemble.
  • Analyzing how music conveys mood and emotion.
Developing active listening skills helps children appreciate music's complexity and prepares them for instrumental study.

2. Rhythm Recognition and Reproduction: Internalizing & Applying Steady Beat

Building on beatfulness, rhythm recognition is crucial for any musician. Develop this skill through:
  • Clapping or tapping out patterns for your child to repeat.
  • Creating rhythms with everyday objects.
  • Introducing basic notation concepts using music symbols (not necessary to start lessons but can be fun!)
These activities help internalize rhythm, facilitating future instrument learning.

3. Pitch Matching: Developing Melodic Awareness

Pitch matching, an extension of tunefulness, is vital for developing musical ear. Practice with:
  • Playing simple melodies on a piano or xylophone for your child to sing back. Using your own voice is even better! IMPORTANT: make sure you don't go too low for young children though.
  • Using hand signals to represent pitch changes while singing.
  • Engaging in call-and-response and echo singing games & songs.
Mastering pitch matching gives children an advantage when learning instruments, especially strings or winds.

4. Fine Motor Skills: Preparing for Instrumental Techniques

Many instruments require precise movements and coordination. Enhance these skills through:
  • Finger exercises and games.
  • Arts and crafts activities involving small object manipulation.
  • Puzzles and building blocks to improve hand-eye coordination.
Developing fine motor skills eases the transition to handling instruments and performing intricate movements.

5. Patience and Persistence: Cultivating a Growth Mindset

Learning an instrument requires time and effort. Foster these qualities by:
  • Engaging in activities that require focus and repetition.
  • Acknowledging progress and effort, not just results.
  • Demonstrating persistence by learning something new alongside your child.
These traits are crucial not only for musical success but also for overall personal development.

Preparing for Musical Education

Focusing on active listening, rhythm recognition, pitch matching, fine motor skills, and patience sets a strong foundation for formal instrument lessons. The goal is to make music accessible and enjoyable, paving the way for long-term musical engagement. Developing these skills can be a collaborative effort. Consider joining The Classical Collective Facebook group, where parents, educators, and musicians share insights and resources to support children's musical growth.

Whether your child is interested in piano, violin, guitar, or any other instrument, these foundational skills provide a solid starting point. By investing time in these areas now, you're facilitating a smoother transition to instrumental learning. Each child's musical journey is unique. Recognize their individual progress and keep the learning process engaging. With the right foundation, your child will be well-prepared to explore the world of instrumental music!

What Non-Musical Skills Every Homeschooler Can Grow in by Playing a Musical Instrument

What Non-Musical Skills Every Homeschooler Can Grow in by Playing a Musical Instrument
Playing a musical instrument isn't just about mastering melodies and rhythms; it's a transformative journey that nurtures a diverse range of non-musical skills crucial for personal growth and success. From fostering discipline to enhancing problem-solving abilities, here's how homeschoolers can develop essential life skills through their musical pursuits.

Patience: Learning to play an instrument requires patience. Whether it's practicing scales or perfecting challenging pieces, progress often unfolds gradually. By embracing the process and persisting through difficulties, homeschoolers cultivate patience—a skill that proves invaluable in various aspects of life.

Discipline: Consistent practice and dedication are essential for musical proficiency. Homeschoolers who learn to prioritize their practice sessions and adhere to a routine develop discipline, a trait that extends beyond the realm of music, positively impacting their academic performance and extracurricular endeavors.

Concentration: Playing music demands focused attention. Whether deciphering sheet music or refining technique, homeschoolers learn to immerse themselves fully in the task at hand. Strengthening their ability to concentrate not only enhances their musical performance but also improves their overall cognitive function.

Problem-Solving Skills: Music presents a myriad of challenges that require creative problem-solving. Whether tackling a complex passage or improvising during a performance, homeschoolers learn to think critically and find solutions—a skill set that prepares them for the complexities of the real world.

Time Management: Balancing practice sessions with homeschool assignments and other activities teaches children the importance of effective time management. By learning to allocate their time wisely, homeschoolers develop a valuable skill that empowers them to achieve their goals efficiently.

Confidence: Performing in front of an audience can be daunting, but through music, homeschoolers gradually build confidence in their abilities. As they conquer new pieces and showcase their talent, they gain a sense of self-assurance that extends beyond the stage, positively impacting their interactions and pursuits.

Persistence: The journey of learning a musical instrument is filled with both triumphs and setbacks. Homeschoolers who persist through challenges develop resilience—a quality that enables them to bounce back stronger when faced with obstacles in the future.

Playing a musical instrument offers far-reaching benefits beyond musical proficiency. By nurturing patience, discipline, concentration, problem-solving abilities, time management, confidence, and persistence through musical pursuits, homeschoolers are equipped to thrive not only in music but in all aspects of their lives. So, let's encourage every child to embrace the transformative power of music and embark on a journey of personal and musical growth that will last a lifetime.

Want your child to grow in some of these areas before taking on learning a new musical instrument? It is SO helpful to be growing in skills like concentration and patience already before starting to play a brand new instrument. For more about these foundational skills, check out the Classical Collective FB group for practical resources and ideas.

What Every Child Should Know Before Beginning to Play a Musical Instrument

What Every Child Should Know Before Beginning to Play a Musical Instrument
Embarking on the journey of learning a musical instrument is a transformative experience for children, shaping not only their musical abilities but also fostering important cognitive and emotional skills. Most people choose piano or ukulele as the first instrument, as those are the most accessible for younger children and smaller hands. Before diving into instrumental training, though, it's crucial for children to develop a strong foundation in three key areas. Outlined by Dr. John Feierabend (America's leading early childhood music educator), these 3 elements are tunefulness, beatfulness, and artfulness. Let's explore how parents and educators can facilitate the development of these essential skills to ensure a successful musical journey for every child, especially at home.

Becoming Tuneful:

Tunefulness lays the groundwork for musical proficiency by honing a child's ability to perceive and produce accurate pitches. To foster tunefulness, parents can incorporate music into daily routines, from singing lullabies to exploring a variety of musical genres together. By engaging in activities that develop pitch discrimination and encourage vocal experimentation, children develop a strong foundation in melody, setting the stage for future instrumental learning. One important point to note is -- make sure young children are not given too difficult of a song to sing. The tune should be simple and follow a predictable pattern, at least until tunefulness is acquired. Caregivers can of course model more complex songs that children will learn to sing in the future! But when assessing tunefulness, make sure children have a simple melody to sing and have heard it enough times to be familiar with it in their "musical ear."

Becoming Beatful:

Steady Beat is the heartbeat of music, making beatfulness a critical skill for aspiring musicians. Children should feel comfortable moving to the pulse of music and maintaining a steady tempo before delving into instrumental training. Children cannot accruately develop rhythm skills without first having an internal sense of steady beat. Activities such as clapping, marching, and playing beat games help children internalize this and develop coordination. By incorporating movement and beat keeping into daily activities, parents and educators lay a solid rhythmic foundation for children, ensuring they're ready to tackle the challenges of instrumental learning with confidence.

Becoming Artful:

While technical proficiency is essential, true musicality lies in artfulness – the ability to infuse emotion, interpretation, and personal expression into music. Encouraging creativity through improvisation, composition, and interpretation empowers children to find their unique voice in music. With young children, this is best practiced by doing fingerplays, action songs, and moving to music for form and expression. By fostering a supportive environment where experimentation is encouraged and individuality is celebrated while also demonstrating that the music matches the expressive intent, parents and educators nurture children's confidence and authenticity in musical expression.

Before beginning to play a musical instrument, it's essential for children to develop these 3 foundational skills. By prioritizing these and providing opportunities for exploration and expression, parents and educators set children up for a lifetime of musical fulfillment and success. With intentional guidance and support, every child can unlock their musical potential and experience the joy of making music.

For practical ideas and resources to support your child's musical journey, join us in The Classical Collective Facebook group. There, you'll find a vibrant community of parents, educators, and musicians sharing valuable practical tips, activities, and resources to enrich your child's musical development. Join us and let's make beautiful music together!


This is my health story

 

I have always been sensitive. That's a word that has described me, my body in particular, my whole life. I have skin sensitivities to fabrics, bruise easily, I get cold easily, I tend to be on "alert" all of the time (no coffee needed here!), I'm a musician and very creative, and I don't even THINK about using any conventional personal care or other products that are scented... they bother my skin, and they bother my respiratory system too. I've never been able to use any scented products because of the discomfort and increased sensitivity they cause. I can't be around people who wear perfume or scented deodorant, because I can't breathe well and my head has discomfort. I can't go into a public bathroom that has been just cleaned because of the toxic chemicals they used to clean it. I can't enjoy candles or most lotions or makeup like most women I know because I'm sensitive to it.

During my first semester of college, I started to develop debilitating discomfort in my jaw, which I was later told is TMJD or temporomandibular joint dysfunction, not just the kind of little twinge when you bite down on something too hard, but long-lasting aching, along with clicking and cracking. It was exacerbated by singing, gum-chewing, caffeine, and other things, and I was easily able to cut out all of the things listed on my doctor's list except for one -- singing. I was a vocal music education major, and singing was my livelihood (or at least soon-to-be), so I couldn't just not practice! I struggled so hard for 2.5 years through long choir rehearsals, voice lessons, practice sessions, and more. By the end of the day, it would be so bad that I'd almost be in tears. My roommates and boyfriend (and his roommates!), bless their servant hearts, would bring me freezing cold ice packs to numb my face enough so that I could fall asleep at least, though I would wake up in the night unable to fall back asleep due to other sleep issues I also was dealing with.

It seemed like a vicious cycle that I needed to stop. Maybe I needed to change majors and give up my dream of making music, of teaching others to make music too. Maybe I needed to pick something that didn't require so much singing and talking. Even smiling a lot bothered me, so maybe I needed to pick a major or job with less human interaction. But THAT idea broke my heart. I didn't enjoy any of the things I could think of! My boyfriend at the time (now husband!) and I had many conversations about what I should do... singing was part of the fabric of my BEING. I am MADE to sing. If you know me, you know that hardly an hour went by without me humming or singing some little tune. But my jaw bothered me so much most of the time that I needed to change SOMETHING. But what?

And that's when change came...

I found some natural and pretty simple solutions -- though simple doesn't always mean easy! It required a LOT of discipline and self-control on my part.

I'm blessed now to have so many versatile tools in my tool box for any emotion, body system, or issue I may be experiencing. So, where am I now? Healthier than I’ve EVER been. I have NO jaw issues anymore when I keep up my self-created protocol. I sleep through the night. I feel so much better now that I'm sleeping more and deeper. I've spent 4 years now working through the emotional issues I faced in early career, and I am so happy that I can now FEEL emotions without feeling completely run-over and frozen by emotions. I’m also happy to say that I have only had little illnesses since finding solutions, not the constant strep throat and other illnesses I was getting at least once per month before! And, that’s saying a lot as I was constantly around germs while working full time with 500+ elementary students. But once I started supporting my immune system, I stopped getting sick every couple of weeks. I can clean with the most amazing smelling cleaner without coughing. I can wear my own homemade "perfume" and get compliments, and not only does it smell good, it supports my body systems. I can use amazing smelling shampoo now! I can have twice as much energy for the day without drinking any coffee or sugary drink. When I started having these successes, I was at first in disbelief, and now in awe at all that God's created, I believe, and given us for our good. Now these are my first line of defense, my go-tos, the first thing I do when something is off, which is not very often anymore (usually just when the weather changes, ah MN life).


I look forward to living a beautiful life of freedom and feeling empowered every single day, enjoying the life I was meant to live. That life includes sharing my story of overcoming and helping you also find better, safer solutions to overcome your daily struggles.

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