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10 Ways to Discover a Love for Classical Music (Even If You Think You Hate It!)

10 Ways to Discover a Love for Classical Music (Even If You Think You Hate It!)

Are you someone who thinks classical music is not your cup of tea? As a music teacher and a mama, I encourage you to give those beautiful symphonies and concertos another chance. Here are 10 tips that may help you change your perspective on classical music.

1. Start with Familiar Pieces

Begin with classical pieces that are widely recognized, such as Beethoven’s 5th Symphony or Vivaldi’s "Four Seasons." These works often appear in movies and commercials, making them more accessible.

2. Listen Actively

Instead of having classical music as background noise, dedicate time to listen actively. Focus on the different instruments and how they interact within the piece. This can enhance your appreciation of the music's complexity.

3. Explore Different Composers

Don't limit yourself to one composer. Explore a variety of styles and eras, from Baroque (Bach) to Romantic (Tchaikovsky) to Modern (Stravinsky). Not sure where to start? The soon-coming Classical Collective Membership will feature a comprehensive composer list, including top compositions by each composer and a monthly composer study around a new composer each month, helping families dive into learning about these fascinating men and women.

4. Use Online Resources

Platforms like YouTube or Spotify offer playlists and recommendations tailored to newcomers. A great resource is the Classics for Kids podcast, hosted by Naomi Lewin, which introduces children to classical music in a fun and engaging way. This educational outreach program provides a wealth of episodes that explore various composers and pieces, making it an excellent tool for both kids and adults looking to learn more about classical music.

5. Attend Live Performances

Experiencing classical music live can be transformative. The energy of a live orchestra and the atmosphere of a concert hall can make the music feel more engaging and impactful. Unsure about going to a concert hall? Many areas offer Music in the Park during the warmer months for free, providing a relaxed environment to enjoy live performances and a much more realistic place to take young children. My daughter LOVED attending this summer when she was 20 months!

6. Listen Repeatedly

Familiarity breeds enjoyment. Listen to the same piece multiple times; each listen can reveal new layers and details you might have missed initially.

7. Learn About the Music

Understanding the context behind a piece can enhance your listening experience. Research the composer’s life, the historical background of the piece, or its thematic elements.

8. Find Your Angle of Hearing

Approach each piece with a specific focus, such as melody, rhythm, or harmony. If you are unsure how to do this, check out the soon-coming Classical Collective Membership, where I have resources that teach you how to understand some of these terms and listen for them well. This technique allows you to engage with the music on a deeper level and discover what aspects you enjoy most.

9. Engage Through Multiple Mediums

Watch old cartoons like Bugs Bunny or Mickey Mouse that have classical music as the background music. This will help you engage differently with the music, and your kids will enjoy it too!

10. Be Patient and Open-Minded

Give yourself permission to not enjoy every piece right away. Classical music is vast and varied; it may take time to find what resonates with you. Keep an open mind and allow your preferences to evolve.

By following these tips, you may find yourself developing a greater appreciation for classical music over time! Embrace the journey of discovery, and who knows? You might just find yourself captivated by its beauty!

Music for Tantrum Time: A Soothing Solution for Parents

Music for Tantrum Time: A Soothing Solution for Parents
Tantrums are a common part of childhood, often triggered by frustration or overstimulation. As a parent, finding effective strategies to manage these emotional outbursts can be challenging. One powerful tool at your disposal that most parents don't think about is music.

The Power of Music in Managing Tantrums

Research shows that music can serve as an effective distraction during tantrums. Familiar songs can create a sense of comfort, calming songs can lower heart rate and help children come back to a regulated state quicker, and engaging rhythms of faster songs encourage participation, helping to redirect your child's focus away from the big feelings they can't express or verbalize yet.

Top Songs for Calming Tantrums

To help you navigate tantrum time, consider creating a calming playlist. Here are some common songs that are effective in soothing children:
  • "Twinkle Twinkle Little Star"
  • "What a Wonderful World" by Louis Armstrong
  • "I Want to Hold Your Hand" by The Beatles
  • "Somewhere Over the Rainbow" by Israel Kamakawiwo'ole
  • "Canon in D" by Pachelbel

But the most important part of picking a song isn't the song -- it is YOU. Can you sing the song soothingly? Can you access it to play easily? Songs that you know and can sing to create relational bonding with your child and help co-regulate with them to calm are going to be the most effective.

How to Use Music Effectively

  1. Immediate Response: Sing a fun, upbeat song that your child loves when you notice signs of an impending tantrum.
  2. During Meltdowns: If your child is already upset, sing softly and rock them or hold them (if they will allow) to create a calming environment.
  3. Routine Integration: Incorporate music into daily routines to help your child feel more secure and reduce resistance to transitions, which are often the source of tantrums. If you recognize a trigger event or time of day for your child to have a tantrum, how can you creatively incorporate music to help them cooperate, calm, or experience that part of day more easily?

Additional Strategies for Tantrum Management

While music is a great tool, it should be part of a bigger strategy that includes acknowledging emotions, creating a calm environment, and identifying triggers to prevent tantrums. How to effectively do this will be outlined in an easy-to-implement, systematic way in the Purposeful Parenting course -- coming soon! Join The Classical Collective group to be notified first when it goes live and for an exclusive discount.

Using music during tantrum time can help diffuse emotional outbursts and foster emotional resilience in children. By curating a thoughtful playlist or list of songs you can sing and integrating it into daily life, parents can create an atmosphere where children feel understood and supported, making tantrums easier to manage. And isn't that what we want as parents? A smoother day for us, growth for our children, and a happy, calm home environment.

Warming Up Your Singing Voice: A Parent's Guide

Warming Up Your Singing Voice: A Parent's Guide
As a parent, you want the best for your child's musical journey, especially if they are passionate about singing. One crucial aspect of vocal training that often gets overlooked is the importance of warming up the voice. In this guide, we’ll explore why warming up is essential, how it benefits young singers, and practical tips for helping your child develop a healthy vocal routine.

The Importance of Warming Up

Protecting Vocal Health

Just like athletes stretch before a game, singers need to warm up their voices to prevent strain and injury. The vocal cords are delicate structures, and sudden, intense use can lead to issues such as hoarseness or vocal fatigue. A proper warm-up prepares the vocal cords for the demands of singing, ensuring they function optimally.

Enhancing Vocal Performance

Warming up not only protects the voice but also enhances performance. A well-prepared voice can achieve better pitch control, tone quality, and overall vocal agility. This is particularly important for young singers who are still developing their vocal skills. A good warm-up routine can help them gain confidence and expressiveness in their singing.

Building Vocal Awareness

Warm-ups encourage singers to become more aware of their vocal mechanisms. This awareness is crucial for developing good singing habits. By focusing on breath control, resonance, and articulation during warm-ups, young singers can foster a deeper understanding of their instrument—their voice.

Benefits of Warming Up

Improved Breath Control

Breath support is fundamental to singing. Warming up helps singers practice "low belly" diaphragmatic breathing, allowing them to sustain notes longer and sing with more power and control.

Increased Range and Flexibility

Regular warm-ups can expand a singer's vocal range and flexibility. By gradually working through different scales and exercises, young singers can explore their vocal capabilities and push their limits safely.

Confidence

As singers become more comfortable with their voices through warm-ups, their confidence grows. This newfound assurance can translate into more expressive performances and a greater willingness to take on challenging pieces.

Practical Tips for Parents

Create a Routine

Encourage your child to establish a consistent warm-up routine before singing. This could be as simple as dedicating 5-8 minutes to vocal exercises before practice or performances. Don't know where to start? Check out the Classical Collective Membership for warm-up walkthrough videos.

Use Fun Exercises

Make warm-ups enjoyable! Incorporate fun vocal exercises, such as humming, lip trills, or singing along to favorite simple songs. This will keep your child engaged and motivated.

Model Good Habits

Set a positive example by participating in warm-ups together. Show your child that warming up is a valuable part of singing, and they’ll be more likely to adopt the habit themselves.

Seek Professional Guidance

Consider enrolling your child in singing lessons with a qualified voice teacher (I offer in-person and online lessons!). A professional can provide tailored warm-up exercises and techniques that suit your child's unique voice and goals.


Warming up the singing voice is a vital practice that every young singer should embrace. As a parent, you play a crucial role in supporting your child's vocal development by encouraging warm-up routines, fostering a love for singing, and ensuring their vocal health.

For those looking to enhance their musical guidance at home, consider The Classical Collective Membership. This low-cost resource provides ongoing support and tools to empower you as a musical guide, even if you don't have the budget for private lessons or feel unsure about teaching music at home. With access to a wealth of materials and a community of like-minded individuals, you can confidently nurture your child's musical journey. So, let’s get those vocal cords warmed up and ready to shine!


This is my health story

 

I have always been sensitive. That's a word that has described me, my body in particular, my whole life. I have skin sensitivities to fabrics, bruise easily, I get cold easily, I tend to be on "alert" all of the time (no coffee needed here!), I'm a musician and very creative, and I don't even THINK about using any conventional personal care or other products that are scented... they bother my skin, and they bother my respiratory system too. I've never been able to use any scented products because of the discomfort and increased sensitivity they cause. I can't be around people who wear perfume or scented deodorant, because I can't breathe well and my head has discomfort. I can't go into a public bathroom that has been just cleaned because of the toxic chemicals they used to clean it. I can't enjoy candles or most lotions or makeup like most women I know because I'm sensitive to it.

During my first semester of college, I started to develop debilitating discomfort in my jaw, which I was later told is TMJD or temporomandibular joint dysfunction, not just the kind of little twinge when you bite down on something too hard, but long-lasting aching, along with clicking and cracking. It was exacerbated by singing, gum-chewing, caffeine, and other things, and I was easily able to cut out all of the things listed on my doctor's list except for one -- singing. I was a vocal music education major, and singing was my livelihood (or at least soon-to-be), so I couldn't just not practice! I struggled so hard for 2.5 years through long choir rehearsals, voice lessons, practice sessions, and more. By the end of the day, it would be so bad that I'd almost be in tears. My roommates and boyfriend (and his roommates!), bless their servant hearts, would bring me freezing cold ice packs to numb my face enough so that I could fall asleep at least, though I would wake up in the night unable to fall back asleep due to other sleep issues I also was dealing with.

It seemed like a vicious cycle that I needed to stop. Maybe I needed to change majors and give up my dream of making music, of teaching others to make music too. Maybe I needed to pick something that didn't require so much singing and talking. Even smiling a lot bothered me, so maybe I needed to pick a major or job with less human interaction. But THAT idea broke my heart. I didn't enjoy any of the things I could think of! My boyfriend at the time (now husband!) and I had many conversations about what I should do... singing was part of the fabric of my BEING. I am MADE to sing. If you know me, you know that hardly an hour went by without me humming or singing some little tune. But my jaw bothered me so much most of the time that I needed to change SOMETHING. But what?

And that's when change came...

I found some natural and pretty simple solutions -- though simple doesn't always mean easy! It required a LOT of discipline and self-control on my part.

I'm blessed now to have so many versatile tools in my tool box for any emotion, body system, or issue I may be experiencing. So, where am I now? Healthier than I’ve EVER been. I have NO jaw issues anymore when I keep up my self-created protocol. I sleep through the night. I feel so much better now that I'm sleeping more and deeper. I've spent 4 years now working through the emotional issues I faced in early career, and I am so happy that I can now FEEL emotions without feeling completely run-over and frozen by emotions. I’m also happy to say that I have only had little illnesses since finding solutions, not the constant strep throat and other illnesses I was getting at least once per month before! And, that’s saying a lot as I was constantly around germs while working full time with 500+ elementary students. But once I started supporting my immune system, I stopped getting sick every couple of weeks. I can clean with the most amazing smelling cleaner without coughing. I can wear my own homemade "perfume" and get compliments, and not only does it smell good, it supports my body systems. I can use amazing smelling shampoo now! I can have twice as much energy for the day without drinking any coffee or sugary drink. When I started having these successes, I was at first in disbelief, and now in awe at all that God's created, I believe, and given us for our good. Now these are my first line of defense, my go-tos, the first thing I do when something is off, which is not very often anymore (usually just when the weather changes, ah MN life).


I look forward to living a beautiful life of freedom and feeling empowered every single day, enjoying the life I was meant to live. That life includes sharing my story of overcoming and helping you also find better, safer solutions to overcome your daily struggles.

Are you ready to live empowered to be your own best advocate? Let's chat.

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