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Navigating Time Blindness: A Guide for Work-From-Home Moms

Navigating Time Blindness: A Guide for Work-From-Home Moms
In the whirlwind of multitasking, deadlines, and juggling household responsibilities, work-from-home moms (like me!) often find themselves grappling with a phenomenon called "time blindness." This elusive concept can disrupt productivity, impact relationships, and contribute to stress levels. Understanding what time blindness is and how to manage it can make a significant difference in the lives of busy moms striving to balance work and family life.

What is Time Blindness? Time blindness refers to a cognitive condition where individuals struggle with estimating and managing time effectively. It's not a lack of understanding of time itself but rather an inability to accurately gauge the passage of time and allocate it efficiently. For work-from-home moms, this can manifest in various ways:
  1. Difficulty in Time Perception: Work-from-home moms may find themselves losing track of time while engrossed in tasks, leading to underestimation or overestimation of how long activities take (I struggle with thinking things will take less time than they do and not breaking projects down into small enough manageable tasks!).
  2. Procrastination and Pacing: Tasks may be delayed or rushed due to an inability to gauge how much time is available, resulting in last-minute scrambles to meet deadlines.
  3. Time Fragmentation: Interruptions from family responsibilities, household chores, and work obligations can fragment the day, making it challenging to maintain focus and productivity.
  4. Neglecting Self-Care: Time blindness can also impact self-care routines, as moms may struggle to find time for exercise, relaxation, or hobbies amidst their busy schedules.
Managing Time Blindness:
  1. Create a Structured Schedule: Establishing a daily routine with set work hours, dedicated breaks, and time blocks for household tasks can provide a sense of structure and help combat time blindness. Time blocking has really helped me here!
  2. Use Time Management Tools: Utilize calendars, planners, or digital apps to schedule tasks, set reminders, and track progress. Time-tracking apps can also help in gaining awareness of how time is spent throughout the day. I utilize my Google Calendar to keep me on track throughout the day and to keep my week organized as each week looks different with my variety of work tasks!
  3. Prioritize Tasks: Identify the most important tasks for each day and allocate time accordingly. Break larger projects into smaller, manageable tasks to prevent overwhelm and facilitate better time estimation.
  4. Set Boundaries: Communicate boundaries with family members, colleagues, and clients regarding work hours and availability. Establishing designated workspaces can also signal to others when you are engaged in work.
  5. Practice Mindfulness: Incorporate mindfulness techniques such as meditation or deep breathing exercises to improve focus, reduce stress, and enhance time awareness. I learned some great ways to keep my mind on track to reach my goals from Big Think!
  6. Delegate and Outsource: Recognize when tasks can be delegated to others or outsourced to free up time for more critical priorities.
  7. Regular Breaks: Incorporate regular breaks into the schedule to rest and recharge, preventing burnout and maintaining productivity levels.
  8. Know Yourself and Work With Your Strengths: If you know you are most productive on brain-heavy work before noon, schedule to do those more creative and challenging tasks then and save the more light or mundane tasks for later in the day when your brain is tired and less productive. Same goes for if you're a night owl -- do your less brain-heavy tasks earlier in the day and plan your work time in the evening for when your brain is most alert and productive. You will finish tasks so much more efficiently if you can schedule then when you are most productive.

    Time blindness can present significant challenges for anyone, but especially work-from-home moms who often have less distraction-free time to work and more schedule moving pieces to juggle than your average person. With awareness and effective strategies, it can be managed successfully. By implementing structured routines, utilizing time management tools, and prioritizing tasks, moms can reclaim control over their time and achieve a better balance between work and family life. Remember, managing time blindness is a journey, and small, consistent efforts can lead to significant improvements in productivity, well-being, and overall satisfaction. Give yourself grace as you learn new skills and celebrate the victories!


This is my health story

 

I have always been sensitive. That's a word that has described me, my body in particular, my whole life. I have skin sensitivities to fabrics, bruise easily, I get cold easily, I tend to be on "alert" all of the time (no coffee needed here!), I'm a musician and very creative, and I don't even THINK about using any conventional personal care or other products that are scented... they bother my skin, and they bother my respiratory system too. I've never been able to use any scented products because of the discomfort and increased sensitivity they cause. I can't be around people who wear perfume or scented deodorant, because I can't breathe well and my head has discomfort. I can't go into a public bathroom that has been just cleaned because of the toxic chemicals they used to clean it. I can't enjoy candles or most lotions or makeup like most women I know because I'm sensitive to it.

During my first semester of college, I started to develop debilitating discomfort in my jaw, which I was later told is TMJD or temporomandibular joint dysfunction, not just the kind of little twinge when you bite down on something too hard, but long-lasting aching, along with clicking and cracking. It was exacerbated by singing, gum-chewing, caffeine, and other things, and I was easily able to cut out all of the things listed on my doctor's list except for one -- singing. I was a vocal music education major, and singing was my livelihood (or at least soon-to-be), so I couldn't just not practice! I struggled so hard for 2.5 years through long choir rehearsals, voice lessons, practice sessions, and more. By the end of the day, it would be so bad that I'd almost be in tears. My roommates and boyfriend (and his roommates!), bless their servant hearts, would bring me freezing cold ice packs to numb my face enough so that I could fall asleep at least, though I would wake up in the night unable to fall back asleep due to other sleep issues I also was dealing with.

It seemed like a vicious cycle that I needed to stop. Maybe I needed to change majors and give up my dream of making music, of teaching others to make music too. Maybe I needed to pick something that didn't require so much singing and talking. Even smiling a lot bothered me, so maybe I needed to pick a major or job with less human interaction. But THAT idea broke my heart. I didn't enjoy any of the things I could think of! My boyfriend at the time (now husband!) and I had many conversations about what I should do... singing was part of the fabric of my BEING. I am MADE to sing. If you know me, you know that hardly an hour went by without me humming or singing some little tune. But my jaw bothered me so much most of the time that I needed to change SOMETHING. But what?

And that's when change came...

I found some natural and pretty simple solutions -- though simple doesn't always mean easy! It required a LOT of discipline and self-control on my part.

I'm blessed now to have so many versatile tools in my tool box for any emotion, body system, or issue I may be experiencing. So, where am I now? Healthier than I’ve EVER been. I have NO jaw issues anymore when I keep up my self-created protocol. I sleep through the night. I feel so much better now that I'm sleeping more and deeper. I've spent 4 years now working through the emotional issues I faced in early career, and I am so happy that I can now FEEL emotions without feeling completely run-over and frozen by emotions. I’m also happy to say that I have only had little illnesses since finding solutions, not the constant strep throat and other illnesses I was getting at least once per month before! And, that’s saying a lot as I was constantly around germs while working full time with 500+ elementary students. But once I started supporting my immune system, I stopped getting sick every couple of weeks. I can clean with the most amazing smelling cleaner without coughing. I can wear my own homemade "perfume" and get compliments, and not only does it smell good, it supports my body systems. I can use amazing smelling shampoo now! I can have twice as much energy for the day without drinking any coffee or sugary drink. When I started having these successes, I was at first in disbelief, and now in awe at all that God's created, I believe, and given us for our good. Now these are my first line of defense, my go-tos, the first thing I do when something is off, which is not very often anymore (usually just when the weather changes, ah MN life).


I look forward to living a beautiful life of freedom and feeling empowered every single day, enjoying the life I was meant to live. That life includes sharing my story of overcoming and helping you also find better, safer solutions to overcome your daily struggles.

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