jaw pain

The Pain You’re Not Talking About as a Music Teacher (But Should Be)

The Pain You’re Not Talking About as a Music Teacher (But Should Be)
If you're a music teacher, you already know: the job is more physically demanding than most people realize.

You’re constantly:
  • Talking (a lot)
  • Demonstrating (over and over again)
  • Conducting, singing, cueing, correcting
  • Trying to maintain posture, presence, and patience
  • …often while clenching your jaw and smiling through the stress
And at the end of the day, when the classroom is finally quiet and your kids are tucked into bed, your jaw hurts.
Maybe your head, too. Or your ears. Or your neck.

Sound familiar?
You're not imagining it. And you’re definitely not alone.

Why Music Teachers Are Prone to TMJ Dysfunction

Most of us weren’t taught how to take care of our own bodies as musicians, let alone teachers.
We were trained to push through pain. To keep going. To “just rest it” and hope it’ll be better tomorrow.

But TMJ dysfunction doesn’t just go away with rest.

It’s a whole-body issue that shows up in your jaw—but starts deeper.

And when your job literally depends on your ability to speak, sing, and show up physically, ignoring it just isn’t an option.

My Story (In Case We Haven’t Met Yet)

I’m Andrea—a fellow music teacher, mom, and entrepreneur.

And I’ve been exactly where you are.

I used to think my jaw pain was just part of the job.

I tried the night guard. The stretching. The "just relax your face" advice (gee, thanks).

It wasn’t until I dug into the why behind TMJ pain that things started to shift.

I began to understand the connections between posture, muscle imbalances, stress, and breath—and how to create small, manageable routines that actually helped me heal.

What Helped Me (And What I Created to Help You)

That journey led me to create TMJ Strong, a self-paced, practical course designed specifically for busy women like us.

It’s not full of fluff or gimmicks. It’s clear, evidence-based, and easy to integrate into your already full life.

You’ll learn:
  • What’s really causing your jaw tension
  • Simple changes you can make in just a few minutes a day
  • How to break the cycle of pain so you can keep doing what you love
  • How to build strength and mobility that lasts (without overwhelm)
If you’ve been quietly dealing with jaw pain, I want you to know:

You don’t have to live with it.

And you definitely don’t have to figure it out alone.

You Deserve to Feel Good—In and Out of the Classroom

You’re pouring into your students every day.
Now it’s time to pour into you.
If you’re ready to stop the cycle of pain and start feeling strong, capable, and clear—

Check out TMJ Strong.

It might just be the thing your future self will thank you for.

Why Your TMJ Treatment Isn't Working: Common Mistakes to Avoid

Why Your TMJ Treatment Isn't Working: Common Mistakes to Avoid
Temporomandibular joint (TMJ) disorders can be frustrating and painful, affecting your daily life in numerous ways - it was causing daily pain for me for over 5 years! If you've been undergoing treatment for TMJ but aren't seeing the results you hoped for, you might be making some common mistakes. Let's explore why your TMJ treatment may not be working and what you can do to improve your chances of success.

Ignoring the Importance of Lifestyle Changes

Many people underestimate the impact of daily habits on their TMJ health. Simply relying on medication, a splint, or occasional therapy sessions isn't going to be enough.

Key lifestyle factors to address:

  • Stress management
  • Proper posture & spinal alignment
  • Avoiding hard or chewy foods and adding in anti-inflammatory and antioxidant foods (see this food choices guide for more about this)
  • Quitting harmful habits like nail-biting or pen-chewing
Make a conscious effort to incorporate these small changes into your daily routine for better treatment outcomes.

The Critical Role of Spinal Alignment in Proper Posture

When addressing posture for TMJ treatment, it's crucial to understand that proper posture starts with spinal alignment. Many people focus solely on sitting or standing straight without realizing that their spine may be misaligned, making it impossible to achieve and maintain proper posture.

Why spinal alignment matters:

  • Misalignment can cause compensatory tension in the neck and jaw muscles
  • A properly aligned spine provides a stable foundation for the entire body, including the jaw
  • Correcting spinal misalignments can alleviate pressure on nerves that may be contributing to TMJ symptoms
To address this:
  • Consider consulting a NUCCA chiropractor to assess and correct spinal misalignment
  • Incorporate exercises that promote spinal health (I know an occupational therapist that can recommend a customized program! Hint hint, it's my husband ;) )
  • Use ergonomic supports that encourage proper spinal positioning throughout the day
Only after addressing spinal alignment can you effectively work on maintaining proper posture to support your TMJ treatment.

Over-reliance on Pain Medication

While pain relief is crucial, solely depending on medication can mask underlying issues without addressing the root cause of your TMJ disorder.

Balanced approach to pain management:

  • Use medication as prescribed, but don't rely on it exclusively
  • Combine pain relief with other treatment modalities (Check out TMJ Strong for lots and lots of ideas! I addressed my own TMJ issues naturally without prescribed medication.)
  • Work with your healthcare provider to gradually reduce medication use as symptoms improve

Neglecting Physical Therapy/Occupational Therapy and Exercises

Many patients underestimate the importance of consistent physical or occupational therapy and at-home exercises in managing TMJ disorders.

Benefits of physical therapy/occupational therapy:

  • Improves jaw mobility
  • Strengthens supporting muscles
  • Targeted ergonomic training
  • Reduces pain and inflammation
Commit to your prescribed exercise regimen and attend all physical therapy sessions for optimal results.

Overlooking the Mind-Body Connection

TMJ disorders often have a strong psychological component. Stress, anxiety, and depression can exacerbate symptoms and hinder treatment progress.

Addressing mental health:

  • Consider cognitive-behavioral therapy
  • Practice relaxation techniques like meditation or deep breathing
  • Seek support from mental health professionals if needed

Expecting Instant Results

TMJ treatment often requires patience and persistence, allowing the body time to heal. Expecting immediate relief can lead to disappointment and treatment abandonment.

Realistic expectations:

  • Understand that improvement may be gradual and have ups & downs
  • Celebrate small victories in your treatment journey
  • Stay committed to your treatment plan, even if progress seems slow

Not Seeking a Second Opinion

If your current treatment isn't yielding results, don't hesitate to seek a second opinion from another TMJ specialist.

Benefits of a second opinion:

  • Fresh perspective on your condition
  • Potential for alternative treatment options
  • Confirmation or refinement of your current diagnosis
By avoiding these common mistakes, you can significantly improve the effectiveness of your TMJ treatment. Remember, successful management of TMJ disorders often requires a multifaceted approach and ongoing commitment. Work closely with your healthcare team, stay informed about your condition, and be proactive in your treatment journey for the best possible outcomes.


This is my health story

 

I have always been sensitive. That's a word that has described me, my body in particular, my whole life. I have skin sensitivities to fabrics, bruise easily, I get cold easily, I tend to be on "alert" all of the time (no coffee needed here!), I'm a musician and very creative, and I don't even THINK about using any conventional personal care or other products that are scented... they bother my skin, and they bother my respiratory system too. I've never been able to use any scented products because of the discomfort and increased sensitivity they cause. I can't be around people who wear perfume or scented deodorant, because I can't breathe well and my head has discomfort. I can't go into a public bathroom that has been just cleaned because of the toxic chemicals they used to clean it. I can't enjoy candles or most lotions or makeup like most women I know because I'm sensitive to it.

During my first semester of college, I started to develop debilitating discomfort in my jaw, which I was later told is TMJD or temporomandibular joint dysfunction, not just the kind of little twinge when you bite down on something too hard, but long-lasting aching, along with clicking and cracking. It was exacerbated by singing, gum-chewing, caffeine, and other things, and I was easily able to cut out all of the things listed on my doctor's list except for one -- singing. I was a vocal music education major, and singing was my livelihood (or at least soon-to-be), so I couldn't just not practice! I struggled so hard for 2.5 years through long choir rehearsals, voice lessons, practice sessions, and more. By the end of the day, it would be so bad that I'd almost be in tears. My roommates and boyfriend (and his roommates!), bless their servant hearts, would bring me freezing cold ice packs to numb my face enough so that I could fall asleep at least, though I would wake up in the night unable to fall back asleep due to other sleep issues I also was dealing with.

It seemed like a vicious cycle that I needed to stop. Maybe I needed to change majors and give up my dream of making music, of teaching others to make music too. Maybe I needed to pick something that didn't require so much singing and talking. Even smiling a lot bothered me, so maybe I needed to pick a major or job with less human interaction. But THAT idea broke my heart. I didn't enjoy any of the things I could think of! My boyfriend at the time (now husband!) and I had many conversations about what I should do... singing was part of the fabric of my BEING. I am MADE to sing. If you know me, you know that hardly an hour went by without me humming or singing some little tune. But my jaw bothered me so much most of the time that I needed to change SOMETHING. But what?

And that's when change came...

I found some natural and pretty simple solutions -- though simple doesn't always mean easy! It required a LOT of discipline and self-control on my part.

I'm blessed now to have so many versatile tools in my tool box for any emotion, body system, or issue I may be experiencing. So, where am I now? Healthier than I’ve EVER been. I have NO jaw issues anymore when I keep up my self-created protocol. I sleep through the night. I feel so much better now that I'm sleeping more and deeper. I've spent 4 years now working through the emotional issues I faced in early career, and I am so happy that I can now FEEL emotions without feeling completely run-over and frozen by emotions. I’m also happy to say that I have only had little illnesses since finding solutions, not the constant strep throat and other illnesses I was getting at least once per month before! And, that’s saying a lot as I was constantly around germs while working full time with 500+ elementary students. But once I started supporting my immune system, I stopped getting sick every couple of weeks. I can clean with the most amazing smelling cleaner without coughing. I can wear my own homemade "perfume" and get compliments, and not only does it smell good, it supports my body systems. I can use amazing smelling shampoo now! I can have twice as much energy for the day without drinking any coffee or sugary drink. When I started having these successes, I was at first in disbelief, and now in awe at all that God's created, I believe, and given us for our good. Now these are my first line of defense, my go-tos, the first thing I do when something is off, which is not very often anymore (usually just when the weather changes, ah MN life).


I look forward to living a beautiful life of freedom and feeling empowered every single day, enjoying the life I was meant to live. That life includes sharing my story of overcoming and helping you also find better, safer solutions to overcome your daily struggles.

Are you ready to live empowered to be your own best advocate? Let's chat.

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