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You Don’t Need 50 Students: How to Build a Freelance Music Business That Actually Supports Your Li

You Don’t Need 50 Students: How to Build a Freelance Music Business That Actually Supports Your Li
I still remember sitting in my car in the school parking lot, running the numbers over and over in my head.

How on earth was I supposed to leave my stable teaching job and somehow bring in the same amount of money—on my own? From scratch? As a freelance music teacher?

It felt impossible… until it wasn’t.

If you’re a teacher thinking about making the leap—or you’ve already leapt and now you’re flailing a little—I want to share what I wish someone had told me sooner.

Not just “you can do it,” but how to actually make the money work.

Because you absolutely can. You just need a plan that works with your life, not against it.

Get Clear on the Real Numbers

The first step to replacing your income? You need to know what you’re actually replacing.

And I don’t mean your gross salary listed in your contract. I mean net, after taxes, after commuting, after all the little expenses that came with being in a classroom all day.

Those emergency Starbucks runs. The stress shopping at Target. The gas. The last-minute supplies you bought for a student.

When I really sat down and did the math, I realized that what I needed each month was less than I thought—but also more layered than I’d considered.

That clarity gave me something I hadn’t had before: a target.

And when you know your target, you can finally build a structure that supports it. Not guesswork. Not wishful thinking. A real, doable plan.

Build Smarter, Not Heavier

The biggest mistake I almost made? Assuming I had to work more to earn more.

I was this close to cramming 30+ one-on-one lessons into every corner of my week. But then I realized—I didn’t leave teaching to burn out in a new way.

The key was diversification.

Instead of just offering private lessons, I built a mix of services that supported both my income goals and my energy:
  • Private lessons in voice and piano
  • Group classes (more students, same time)
  • Homeschool enrichment programs
  • Seasonal workshops and camps
  • Digital resources and asynchronous learning tools
  • Affiliate recommendations for things I already loved and used
Each offer served a different purpose, and together they created a business that was sustainable, profitable, and actually enjoyable.

You don’t need to teach 40 hours a week to hit your number. You just need the right combination of offers.

The Pricing Shift That Changed Everything

Let’s talk about something tender: pricing.

This is where so many amazing educators trip themselves up—not because they’re not worth it, but because they’re used to being underpaid and overgiving.

Sound familiar?

Here’s the shift that changed everything for me:

You’re not charging for your time. You’re charging for the transformation you help create.

That includes:
  • Your years of experience and training
  • The prep time you don’t bill for but always do
  • The emotional energy it takes to show up, week after week
  • The confidence and joy your students walk away with
When I started pricing based on value instead of fear or what I thought people could afford, my entire business changed. I showed up differently. My clients showed up differently.

And no surprise—the money started working.

You Deserve More—and That’s Okay

There’s this unspoken belief in the teaching world that we’re supposed to give until we have nothing left. That we shouldn’t want more. That rest or financial security somehow means we care less about our students.

But here’s what I believe now:

You teach better when you’re not exhausted.
You create more when you’re not scrambling.
You serve deeper when your own cup isn’t empty.

Wanting a business that supports your life isn’t greedy. It’s wise.

This isn’t about chasing luxury. It’s about building stability. Sustainability. Options.

One More Thing...

There’s one more piece to this puzzle—something I’ve never heard anyone talk about in teacher-to-freelancer circles. It’s something I had to learn the hard way that first year, and once I understood it, everything clicked into place.

I break it down in detail inside this week’s podcast episode: Episode 4 – Making the Money Work.

Whether you're still in the classroom or you're already out and trying to rebuild your income from the ground up, I made this episode for you.

Give it a listen and let’s walk this out together—one intentional step at a time.


You're not stuck. You're not behind. And you’re definitely not crazy for wanting more.

You’re building something brave. And it’s going to work—if you build it with intention.

Why I Purposefully Didn’t Write My Own Podcast Intro Music (Even as a Composer)

Why I Purposefully Didn’t Write My Own Podcast Intro Music (Even as a Composer)
Let me just say it up front:

Yes — I’m a composer.
Yes — I could have written my own podcast intro music.
And no — I didn’t.

But not because I didn’t care.
And not because I ran out of time.

I chose not to — on purpose.

In fact, I picked a piece I absolutely adore: the Double Violin Concerto in D minor, 1st movement by J.S. Bach. 🎻

Why? Because I love Bach. I connect with it. It reflects my values — structure and flow, soul and discipline, beauty and order.

And that’s the point of this post.

🎶 I Could Have Composed It… But I Didn’t Need To

When I launched my podcast, I had this voice in the back of my head:

“You should write your own theme music. You’re a composer. It would be the perfect showcase.”
But if I’m being honest — I knew that road.

I knew it would lead to days tweaking melodies, second-guessing tone, wondering if it was “good enough,” and maybe even pushing back the launch while I tried to get it just right.

And that’s not what I needed.

What I needed was:
  • To launch.
  • To start connecting.
  • To teach, to encourage, to serve.
I didn’t need to prove I could write music — I do that in other times and spaces.

I needed to choose wisely where to invest my time and energy.

So instead, I picked music that already lived in my bones. Something that resonated with me on a deeper level and said, “This is who I am,” without me needing to write a single note.

🧠 Just Because You Can Doesn’t Mean You Should

Here’s the bigger takeaway:

Whether you’re composing, teaching, or building a new business — there will always be opportunities to do more.

To prove your skill.
To check every box.
To make it all “custom.”

But what if your next level isn’t about doing more… it’s about choosing what actually matters?

When we stretch ourselves too thin doing all the things just because we can, we end up robbing ourselves of clarity, creativity, and momentum.

✨ What This Looks Like in Your Business

If you’re a freelance music teacher trying to build something sustainable — online lessons, digital courses, a hybrid studio — I want you to hear this loud and clear:

You don’t have to do everything to prove you're talented.
You don’t have to build it all from scratch to make it meaningful.
You don’t have to be the composer, performer, editor, marketer, admin, AND accountant.
You get to be strategic.

You get to use what already exists — and love it deeply.

You get to protect your energy so you can show up fully in the roles that matter most.

TL;DR (Because: real life)

I didn’t write my own podcast intro music.

I chose Bach — because it’s beautiful, it’s meaningful, and I didn’t need to start from scratch.
And in that choice, I gave myself space to launch, not delay.

To move forward, not spin in circles.

I hope this gives you permission to do the same — in your own way, in your own work.

🎯 If Marketing Is the Thing You Know You Need to Hand Off…

You’re not alone — and you don’t have to DIY your way through all of it.

If your to-do list is full of marketing tasks you secretly dread, I’m your person.

Let’s take it off your plate — so you can get back to creating, teaching, and building the life you actually want.


It’s a custom look at how your business is positioned in your local area — so you can stop guessing, start growing, and finally feel clear on where to go next.

You bring the heart. I’ll bring the strategy. 💛

Is Freelance Teaching Right for Me?

Is Freelance Teaching Right for Me?
Ever found yourself thinking…

There has got to be a better way to teach music.
If that thought has been circling your brain lately, you’re not alone—and you’re definitely not broken.
You might still love teaching… but the system you’re in?

That’s another story.

If you’ve been daydreaming about setting your own schedule, choosing your students, building your own curriculum—or honestly, just being able to use the bathroom without asking for coverage—freelance teaching might be worth considering.

But is it really the right fit for you?

Let’s talk about it.

Signs freelance teaching might be your next step:

  • You’re still passionate about teaching, but totally burned out by the system
  • You want more flexibility for your family, your health, your sanity
  • You’re craving more creativity, freedom, or income potential
  • You’re drawn to the idea of building something that’s yours
Sound familiar?

But let’s be honest—it’s not all sunshine and schedule freedom.

There are fears (normal ones!), some mindset shifts, and a few red flags that might mean it’s not the right time just yet.

And that’s okay, too.

I talk through all of this in Episode 2 of the podcast, Out of the Music Room.

We cover who freelance teaching is perfect for, what fears are totally normal (but don’t have to stop you), and why this path doesn’t have to be all-or-nothing.

🎧 Listen to Episode 2 here: Is Freelance Music Teaching Right for You?

Whether you’re ready to leap or just dipping a toe in, this is your safe place to explore the “what if.”

You’re not behind. You’re not crazy.

You’re right on time.

Marketing During “Off” Seasons (Like Summer or Holidays)

Marketing During “Off” Seasons (Like Summer or Holidays)
Let’s talk about the weird, quiet stretches on the freelance music teacher calendar.

You know the ones:
  • Summer break
  • The holidays
  • That awkward post-recital slump
  • Mid-January when everyone’s still in pajamas
These seasons can feel like a full stop.

Students travel, families go into hibernation mode, and suddenly your inbox is quieter than you’d like.

So the question is…
Should you stop marketing during these “off” times?
Nope. But you should market differently.

First: Off-seasons aren’t failures—they’re rhythms.

Freelance businesses have seasons, not just schedules.

You’re not doing anything wrong if things slow down in July or January.

But here’s the secret:
How you show up during the quiet seasons sets you up for the busy ones.

Think of it like gardening.

Summer might feel like dry soil… but what you plant now?

That’s what blooms in September.

So what kind of marketing does work in off-seasons?

Here’s what I recommend:
1. Focus on nurturing, not selling.
This is the time to show up with value—tips, encouragement, behind-the-scenes moments. Stay top-of-mind without shouting “Buy from me!”

2. Reconnect with your list.
Summer is a great time to warm up your email audience, run a simple re-engagement sequence, or share a few “what I’m working on” updates.

3. Talk to future students.
Plant seeds for fall enrollment or back-to-school offers. Preview what’s coming, share early-bird bonuses, and invite people to get on your waitlist.

4. Evaluate and prep.
This is prime time to refresh/redo your website, update your welcome sequence, or build out new evergreen offers. Do the foundational work now so it’s ready when inquiries pick back up.


Want some fresh eyes on your marketing strategy?

I offer 1:1 coaching and custom resources to help you market smarter, not harder—so you're not stuck reinventing the wheel every season.

Shoot me a message or hop into the Freelance Music Teacher Community on Facebook if you want support!

And remember:

A quiet season isn’t a dead end.
It’s a window of opportunity.

Can You Actually Build a Music Teaching Business Without Social Media?

Can You Actually Build a Music Teaching Business Without Social Media?
Short answer?
Yes.

Long answer?
Absolutely—but you’ve gotta get strategic.

Let’s be real:

If you’ve ever considered deleting your Instagram account mid-scroll or felt a tiny bit resentful of having to dance, post, or film your life just to get students... you are not alone.

Social media has become the default marketing advice for freelancers, but for a lot of music teachers, it’s actually causing more stress than success.

And here’s the real kicker:
You don’t need to be everywhere online to build a thriving business.
You just need to be in the right places—doing the things that actually move the needle.

Why this myth is so loud in our industry

Most of us were never taught how to build a business.

We were trained to teach.

So when it’s time to “put ourselves out there,” we do what everyone else seems to be doing…
Social media
Hoping someone notices
Spinning our wheels trying to stay “visible”

But visibility without strategy?

It’s just noise.

You’re a teacher, not a TikTok creator. And your dream business shouldn’t depend on an algorithm.

So what does work if I’m not using social media?

Ohhh man, let me show you what I wish someone told me sooner:

✔️ Email marketing (yep!)

It’s the #1 way I connect with potential students, share offers, and serve my audience.

You don’t need a giant list—just the right people and a clear message.

✔️ Local SEO (Google-friendly content)

You’d be amazed how many parents search “voice teacher near me” or “piano lessons for adults in [city].” Are you showing up when they do?
Hint: A simple, clear sales-driven website and a Google Business profile go a long way.

✔️ Local connections + word of mouth

This old-school method? Still undefeated.
Coffee shop flyers, community boards, PTA connections, partnerships with local schools or homeschool co-ops… golden.

✔️ Free value-packed content

Blog posts, PDFs, video trainings—things that position you as the go-to guide.
Not to go “viral,” but to build trust.

And when those resources are paired with a smart CTA to join your email list? Boom. You’ve got a system.

You don’t need more followers—you need more focus.

More clarity.

More connection.

More courage to build your version of a sustainable business.

If social media lights you up? Awesome—use it with intention.

But if it makes you feel behind, anxious, or just plain burnt out?

Let’s release it. No need to run the rat race!

Your business can grow without being online 24/7.

You just need a marketing plan that fits your life, your family, and your energy.

And guess what?
I help music teachers build exactly that kind of business.
Strategic. Sustainable. Soulful.

Ready to find your local edge?

If your dream students are in your city but you’re not sure how to reach them, grab this freebie:
Local Market Analysis Report for Music Teachers

It’ll show you how to spot opportunity gaps, position your business in your community, and grow without posting on every platform.

You're not building just a studio.

You're building a business.

And you get to do it in a way that actually works for your life.

Let’s go!

The Pain You’re Not Talking About as a Music Teacher (But Should Be)

The Pain You’re Not Talking About as a Music Teacher (But Should Be)
If you're a music teacher, you already know: the job is more physically demanding than most people realize.

You’re constantly:
  • Talking (a lot)
  • Demonstrating (over and over again)
  • Conducting, singing, cueing, correcting
  • Trying to maintain posture, presence, and patience
  • …often while clenching your jaw and smiling through the stress
And at the end of the day, when the classroom is finally quiet and your kids are tucked into bed, your jaw hurts.
Maybe your head, too. Or your ears. Or your neck.

Sound familiar?
You're not imagining it. And you’re definitely not alone.

Why Music Teachers Are Prone to TMJ Dysfunction

Most of us weren’t taught how to take care of our own bodies as musicians, let alone teachers.
We were trained to push through pain. To keep going. To “just rest it” and hope it’ll be better tomorrow.

But TMJ dysfunction doesn’t just go away with rest.

It’s a whole-body issue that shows up in your jaw—but starts deeper.

And when your job literally depends on your ability to speak, sing, and show up physically, ignoring it just isn’t an option.

My Story (In Case We Haven’t Met Yet)

I’m Andrea—a fellow music teacher, mom, and entrepreneur.

And I’ve been exactly where you are.

I used to think my jaw pain was just part of the job.

I tried the night guard. The stretching. The "just relax your face" advice (gee, thanks).

It wasn’t until I dug into the why behind TMJ pain that things started to shift.

I began to understand the connections between posture, muscle imbalances, stress, and breath—and how to create small, manageable routines that actually helped me heal.

What Helped Me (And What I Created to Help You)

That journey led me to create TMJ Strong, a self-paced, practical course designed specifically for busy women like us.

It’s not full of fluff or gimmicks. It’s clear, evidence-based, and easy to integrate into your already full life.

You’ll learn:
  • What’s really causing your jaw tension
  • Simple changes you can make in just a few minutes a day
  • How to break the cycle of pain so you can keep doing what you love
  • How to build strength and mobility that lasts (without overwhelm)
If you’ve been quietly dealing with jaw pain, I want you to know:

You don’t have to live with it.

And you definitely don’t have to figure it out alone.

You Deserve to Feel Good—In and Out of the Classroom

You’re pouring into your students every day.
Now it’s time to pour into you.
If you’re ready to stop the cycle of pain and start feeling strong, capable, and clear—

Check out TMJ Strong.

It might just be the thing your future self will thank you for.

Why Social Media Followers Aren’t Leads (And What To Do Instead)

Why Social Media Followers Aren’t Leads (And What To Do Instead)
Let me guess.

You’ve been showing up on Instagram. You’re posting about your lessons. You’re even trying those little trending audios where you point at text boxes and lip sync (major kudos if you actually enjoy those 😅).

But despite all the doing... your schedule still has more holes than a practice room on a Friday night.

And the little voice in your head is starting to whisper things like:
“Maybe I’m just not cut out for this…”
“What am I missing?”
“Why is this working for other teachers but not me?”
Friend, it’s not you. It’s the strategy.

The truth they don’t tell you about going freelance.

Most classroom music teachers who dream of going freelance have a moment where it all feels possible—freedom, flexibility, and more time with your family.

And then?
Reality hits.

Bills. Doubts. The pressure to “build a brand.”

The fear of giving up a steady paycheck for something that might not work.

So what do we do? We dip a toe in.

We start posting online.

We try to “build an audience.”

We hope the students will come.

But here’s the thing...

❌ Followers are not the same as leads.

You can have 2,000 followers and still no income.

You can have a viral post and still no paid bookings.

Because visibility ≠ viability.

Social media is great for attention & visibility.

But email marketing is where real connection—and real business—happens.

Wait… do I really need email marketing?

If you’re serious about building more than just a lesson studio...

If you’re dreaming of digital offers, group programs, local partnerships, creative freedom and real income... then yes.

Because email isn’t just for big brands or “techy people.”

It’s your direct line to the people who care about what you offer and are ready to go deeper.

Here’s why it works:
  • It’s personal. You’re showing up in their inbox, not buried in a feed based on an arbitrary algorithm.
  • It’s intentional. You can guide people through a journey, not just hope they happen to see your next post.
  • It converts. Like, way more than social. (Some stats say 6x higher. I believe it.)

So… what should I send?

Don’t overthink it. Start with value.

  • A weekly tip or encouragement
  • A behind-the-scenes story from your teaching or biz-building life
  • Student wins or testimonials
  • Updates on offers, workshops, new resources
  • Sneak peeks & early release offers
  • Free content with a clear Call To Action (even if that CTA is “come hang out with me!”)
Pro Tip: You don’t need to email daily. Just show up consistently—like a real person, not a brand billboard.

But what if I’m still not getting bites?

Then it’s time to zoom out.

If your emails, posts, or offers aren’t landing, it’s probably not a content problem—it’s a clarity problem.

Who exactly are you trying to help?
What do they actually need?
How do you solve that problem better than anyone else?
When you get super clear on your ideal student (aka dream client), your whole message shifts.

Suddenly, people start saying things like: “It’s like you’re inside my head.”

And that? That's the beginning of real traction.

💡 Inside this blog, I share how I help teachers build that clarity through a custom Ideal Student Blueprint—and what that process can unlock for your business.

Final thoughts from someone who's been there...

You’re not “just” teaching lessons.

You’re building a business.

A business that creates time, income, and freedom.
A business that reflects who you are and how you love to serve.
A business that doesn’t rely on algorithms or burnout to grow.

So stop waiting to “feel ready.”

You’re already equipped!
Now let’s build it—on purpose.

Stop Hiding: Simple Ways to Get Seen in Your Local Area

Stop Hiding: Simple Ways to Get Seen in Your Local Area
If you’ve ever said, “I’m not getting enough inquiries,” or “No one in my area knows I exist,” this post is for you.

Because here’s the truth most freelance music teachers don’t hear:
You don’t need to go viral to grow a successful business.
You just need to show up where your people are already looking.
That’s where local SEO comes in.

So… what is local SEO?

It simply means making sure your business shows up when people search for things like:
  • “Voice teacher near me”
  • “Piano lessons in [your city]”
  • “Violin lessons for beginners [zip code]”
  • “Music classes for kids [town name]”
And spoiler: these people aren’t just browsing. They’re actively looking for what you offer.

They’re warm leads. They’re local.

And if your studio’s not showing up when they search… that’s a missed opportunity.

Why this matters especially for freelance teachers:

If you’re not part of a school, studio, or music academy… you are the business.

That means you have to be easy to find.

The good news? You don’t need a huge budget or a fancy website to get started. Just a few key things can help:
  • A clear, search-friendly homepage or website that actually converts
  • A Google Business profile with current info, photos, and reviews
  • A few blog posts or pages that use phrases people are actually typing into Google
It doesn’t have to be complicated—but it does need to be intentional.

Want help figuring out how you stack up locally?

Grab this custom freebie:
📍 The Local Market Analysis Report for Music Teachers

It’ll walk you through how to check what other teachers in your area are doing, where you might stand out, and how to show up more clearly for your dream students.


You don’t need more posts.

You need to be easier to find by the people who already want what you offer.

Let’s make sure your local visibility reflects the amazing work you’re doing.

Are You Marketing… or Just Posting?

Are You Marketing… or Just Posting?
Okay, real talk time.

Have you ever spent 45 minutes crafting an Instagram post—choosing the perfect picture, writing a thoughtful caption, adding hashtags—only to get a handful of likes and zero student inquiries?

And then thought:
“But I’m doing all the things… why isn’t this working?”
I’ve been there.

Spoiler alert: what you’re doing might not be marketing. It might just be posting.

Wait, isn’t social media part of marketing?

Technically? Sure.

But here’s the difference no one talks about:
Marketing has a purpose.

It leads somewhere. It’s part of a system. It helps move people from stranger → curious → ready to book.

Posting, on the other hand?

Is often just content creation. And unless it’s part of a strategy, it usually leads to frustration.

So let’s look at the signs...

🚩 You might just be posting if:

  • You're posting consistently but still not getting inquiries
  • You’re not sure what the goal of your posts actually is
  • You don’t have a system to follow up with interested people
  • You’re relying on “hope marketing” (as in: “I hope someone sees this and books a lesson or buys a course!”)
  • You’re not collecting emails or offering clear next steps
Sound familiar?

Don’t worry—you’re not alone. And you’re not doing it all wrong. You just need a shift in strategy.

What real marketing actually looks like

Let’s simplify this.

Real marketing is about connection and conversion.

It’s about helping the right people find you, trust you, and take that next step—whether that’s signing up for your list, downloading a resource, or booking with you.

That means:
  • You know who your ideal student is (and speak directly to them)
  • You offer clear next steps (not just “like and share!”)
  • You nurture leads over time (think: email series, helpful content, invitations—not pressure)
  • You measure what’s working and adjust with intention
  • You’re building something bigger than just a full 1:1 schedule—you’re building a business

So how do I start actually marketing?

It starts with clarity.

Ask yourself:
  • Who do I really want to teach?
  • What makes me different?
  • What problem am I solving for them?
  • What’s the best way to reach them consistently—without burning out?
Then?

Start treating your social posts, emails, blogs, and even conversations as part of one connected message.
A message that says:
“Hey, I see you. I understand your needs. And I’ve built something just for you.”
That’s when it shifts.

Ready to make your marketing mean something?

This is exactly the kind of thing I walk teachers through inside my 1:1 Ideal Student Blueprint process. Because when your messaging lines up with your dream client?

It stops feeling like work.

It starts bringing in the right people.

And your business finally starts to grow—with clarity and calm.


Here’s your reminder:

You’re not just building a studio.

You’re building a business.

And you get to build it with intention—not overwhelm.

The Biggest Lie Freelance Music Teachers Believe About Social Media

The Biggest Lie Freelance Music Teachers Believe About Social Media
Let me guess...
You’ve been told (or felt that constant nudge) to “be more consistent” online.
“Post every day.”
“Show your face more.”
“Keep showing up — even if no one’s commenting.”
And while consistency can help… here’s the honest truth:
Posting more isn’t the same as posting with purpose.

The biggest myth I see among music teachers running their own studios is this:
“If I just post more, it’ll eventually start working.”
But friend… that strategy leads straight to burnout.
Let’s talk about what actually does work.

What Posting More Really Does (If There’s No Strategy)

If your content isn’t connected to a clear plan, then posting more just leads to:

  • Wasted time
  • Mental fatigue
  • Feeling like social media is a second job
  • Zero leads, despite all that effort
I see it all the time with brilliant, hard-working teachers who already have a full (or nearly full) studio… but want to grow with less hustle. Whether that means launching group programs, digital offers, or just bringing in more aligned students—more posts alone won’t get you there.

So... What Does Work?

If you want social media to work for you (instead of feeling like a chore), here’s where to start:

1. Define the Goal of Your Content

Every post should have a job. Are you trying to…
  • Build trust with potential students (or their parents)?
  • Get clicks to your lesson info page?
  • Encourage people to join your email list?
  • Kick up your algorithm with engagement?
No more “I haven’t posted today” panic posts. Every piece of content should serve your bigger picture.

2. Focus on Strategy Over Frequency

Posting three thoughtful posts a week will always outperform seven random ones.
You don’t need to chase trends or post daily to get results.
You need to speak clearly to the person you want to help, with content that connects.

3. Plug Social Media Into a Bigger System

Social media is just one part of the puzzle—it shouldn’t be your entire marketing plan.
Your content should lead people to:

  • Your website
  • Your email list
  • Your inquiry form or booking page
  • A clear onboarding path
That’s how we turn followers into students—and visibility into income.

Real Talk for the Music Teacher Scrollin’ Instagram at 10 PM

You’re not failing at social media.
You’ve just been given the wrong tools.
More posts ≠ more students.
More strategy = more results.

You deserve a marketing plan that works for you—and gives you time back for the life you’re building.

Ready to Make Social Media Actually Work for Your Studio?


This isn’t another fluffy checklist. It’s a practical roadmap that shows you how to simplify your marketing, attract better-fit students, and stop wasting time on content that doesn’t convert.

It’s time to stop guessing—and start growing.

What Happens When You Don’t Know Your Ideal Student (And How to Fix It)

What Happens When You Don’t Know Your Ideal Student (And How to Fix It)
Let’s talk about one of the sneakiest reasons your marketing might not be working the way you hoped.

You're showing up online.
You're posting to Instagram or Facebook.
You’re offering lessons, group classes, or courses…
But it feels like no one’s actually listening. (Cue crickets)

Here’s the truth that most music teachers aren’t told:

It’s not always about how often you're posting or which platform you’re on.
It might be that you’re not speaking clearly to the right person.

Why Knowing Your Ideal Student (or Parent!) Changes Everything

When you're not 100% sure who you're trying to reach, your marketing gets… well, kinda meh.
Your posts feel flat.
Your emails feel awkward.
And your audience? Confused.

Here’s what that usually looks like:

  • You're writing content that even you wouldn’t stop to read
  • You’re getting inquiries from people who don’t really fit your vibe (or budget)
  • You feel stuck every time you sit down to make content
  • Your offers don’t sell like you hoped
  • And you’re constantly second-guessing your messaging
Exhausting, right?

But when you do have clarity around your ideal student — or the parent who’s hiring you — everything shifts.
Your message lands.
Your offers click.
The right people start finding you (and saying YES).

Not Sure Who Your Ideal Client Is? Here’s How That Might Show Up:

  • You’re posting regularly… but engagement is low
  • You’re getting questions that don’t match what you actually offer
  • You struggle to explain what you do and who it's for
  • You're getting inquiries from people who aren’t ready, aren’t a fit, or just want a discount
  • You're tweaking your messaging over and over… and still feel like it's off
If that sounds familiar, take a deep breath. You’re not alone. And you’re not doing anything wrong.
You just need a bit of clarity. And I’ve got you. 💛

How to Fix It (Without a 47-Page Worksheet!)

Let’s keep this simple and actually useful. Ask yourself these three questions:

1. Who do I love teaching — and why?

Think about your favorite students (or their parents).
What were they like?
What did they care about?
Why did working with them light you up?

2. What are they struggling with before they find me?

This is GOLD. Maybe they’re overwhelmed by online learning. Maybe their kid’s confidence is tanking. Maybe they want a better option than the after-school chaos.
Speak directly to that moment.
What do you teach/help them with -- specifically? (Don't just say "piano lessons.")

3. What outcome are they hoping for?

Don’t just list features (“8 lessons per month, 30 minutes each”).

Speak to the transformation:

More confidence
A love of music
An xyz philosophy of learning and its results
Better focus
A teacher who gets their child

When You Know Who You’re Talking To, Everything Gets Easier:

✅ Your content flows
✅ Your offers resonate
✅ Your students (and their parents) feel connected before they even hit "inquire"
✅ And best of all—you feel confident sharing your work

No more being everything to everyone.

You’ll start attracting students who are truly a great fit—and who are thrilled to pay for the transformation you provide.

Want Help Defining Your Ideal Student (Without Spinning Your Wheels)?

You don’t need another generic worksheet.

You need a plug-and-play guide that actually makes sense for music teachers building businesses on their terms.

That’s why I created the Ideal Student Blueprint

It’ll help you:
  • Get crystal-clear on who your perfect-fit student (or parent) really is
  • Understand what they’re looking for and how to speak their language
  • Create messaging that clicks—so your website, posts, and emails actually work
  • Build the foundation for marketing that feels focused, not frantic
Whether you’re going full-time freelance or just refining your current offers, this blueprint will help you dial in your message with confidence.


Because clarity isn’t just a nice-to-have.

It’s your first step to building a business that feels aligned, sustainable, and so much lighter.

🎵 Can We Please Stop Glorifying the Hustle?

🎵 Can We Please Stop Glorifying the Hustle?
There was a season where I wore exhaustion like a badge of honor.

Teaching back-to-back classes by day. Private lessons after school.

Grading during lunch. Rehearsals at night.

Squeezing lesson planning, laundry, and marketing into whatever spare seconds I could find.

It looked like commitment on the outside.

But inside?

It felt like burnout.

And here’s the wild part: I actually believed that was what success was supposed to look like.

Maybe you’ve believed it too?

The Lie of “Hustle Culture” in Music Ed

We’ve been fed this idea that if we just work harder, say yes to more gigs, pick up extra students, volunteer for one more after-school program… then it’ll all finally click.

But here’s what I’ve learned (the hard way):
🎯 Hustle doesn’t guarantee results.
🎯 Working harder doesn’t always mean working smarter.
🎯 That “dream job” starts to feel like a trap when there’s no margin left for your own life.

And if you’re exhausted, stretched thin, and quietly resenting the job you once loved… you are not alone.

So… What Does Build a Sustainable Music Biz?

If you’re done with survival mode and ready for something better, here’s what I want you to know:

1. You Don’t Need to Be Busy to Be Impactful

Some of my most profitable and peaceful weeks happened when I taught fewer students—because I had the right ones, in the right model, with the right systems.

When you know what actually moves the needle? You stop wasting time on what doesn’t.

2. Simplicity is Your Superpower

You don’t need 5 social platforms, 17 pricing tiers, or a jam-packed calendar to make this work.

You need one solid offer, one aligned audience, and a system that supports your life.

This is what I help other music teachers build every day—freedom-based teaching businesses that actually feel good to run.

3. Time Freedom Shouldn’t Be a Bonus—It Should Be the Blueprint

You didn’t start dreaming of freelancing so you could be more overwhelmed.

You want:
  • Flexibility.
  • Family time.
  • The ability to nap on a Tuesday if your toddler was up all night. 😅
Let’s build your business with that in mind from the start.

Hustle Isn’t the Goal. Harmony Is.

You can hold high standards and healthy boundaries.

You can build a business you love without burning out.

You can grow your income and your joy at the same time.

If that’s what you want? You’re not lazy.

You’re wise.

And you're exactly who I created my programs, resources, and this community for. 💛

Ready to Build a Music Business That Doesn't Require Burnout?

Start here 👇

Free Quick Start Marketing Guide for Music Teachers
It’s your first step toward building a business that grows—without grinding yourself into the ground.

You're not behind. You're just getting started. And I’m cheering wildly for you. 💛


 
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This is my health story

 

I have always been sensitive. That's a word that has described me, my body in particular, my whole life. I have skin sensitivities to fabrics, bruise easily, I get cold easily, I tend to be on "alert" all of the time (no coffee needed here!), I'm a musician and very creative, and I don't even THINK about using any conventional personal care or other products that are scented... they bother my skin, and they bother my respiratory system too. I've never been able to use any scented products because of the discomfort and increased sensitivity they cause. I can't be around people who wear perfume or scented deodorant, because I can't breathe well and my head has discomfort. I can't go into a public bathroom that has been just cleaned because of the toxic chemicals they used to clean it. I can't enjoy candles or most lotions or makeup like most women I know because I'm sensitive to it.

During my first semester of college, I started to develop debilitating discomfort in my jaw, which I was later told is TMJD or temporomandibular joint dysfunction, not just the kind of little twinge when you bite down on something too hard, but long-lasting aching, along with clicking and cracking. It was exacerbated by singing, gum-chewing, caffeine, and other things, and I was easily able to cut out all of the things listed on my doctor's list except for one -- singing. I was a vocal music education major, and singing was my livelihood (or at least soon-to-be), so I couldn't just not practice! I struggled so hard for 2.5 years through long choir rehearsals, voice lessons, practice sessions, and more. By the end of the day, it would be so bad that I'd almost be in tears. My roommates and boyfriend (and his roommates!), bless their servant hearts, would bring me freezing cold ice packs to numb my face enough so that I could fall asleep at least, though I would wake up in the night unable to fall back asleep due to other sleep issues I also was dealing with.

It seemed like a vicious cycle that I needed to stop. Maybe I needed to change majors and give up my dream of making music, of teaching others to make music too. Maybe I needed to pick something that didn't require so much singing and talking. Even smiling a lot bothered me, so maybe I needed to pick a major or job with less human interaction. But THAT idea broke my heart. I didn't enjoy any of the things I could think of! My boyfriend at the time (now husband!) and I had many conversations about what I should do... singing was part of the fabric of my BEING. I am MADE to sing. If you know me, you know that hardly an hour went by without me humming or singing some little tune. But my jaw bothered me so much most of the time that I needed to change SOMETHING. But what?

And that's when change came...

I found some natural and pretty simple solutions -- though simple doesn't always mean easy! It required a LOT of discipline and self-control on my part.

I'm blessed now to have so many versatile tools in my tool box for any emotion, body system, or issue I may be experiencing. So, where am I now? Healthier than I’ve EVER been. I have NO jaw issues anymore when I keep up my self-created protocol. I sleep through the night. I feel so much better now that I'm sleeping more and deeper. I've spent 4 years now working through the emotional issues I faced in early career, and I am so happy that I can now FEEL emotions without feeling completely run-over and frozen by emotions. I’m also happy to say that I have only had little illnesses since finding solutions, not the constant strep throat and other illnesses I was getting at least once per month before! And, that’s saying a lot as I was constantly around germs while working full time with 500+ elementary students. But once I started supporting my immune system, I stopped getting sick every couple of weeks. I can clean with the most amazing smelling cleaner without coughing. I can wear my own homemade "perfume" and get compliments, and not only does it smell good, it supports my body systems. I can use amazing smelling shampoo now! I can have twice as much energy for the day without drinking any coffee or sugary drink. When I started having these successes, I was at first in disbelief, and now in awe at all that God's created, I believe, and given us for our good. Now these are my first line of defense, my go-tos, the first thing I do when something is off, which is not very often anymore (usually just when the weather changes, ah MN life).


I look forward to living a beautiful life of freedom and feeling empowered every single day, enjoying the life I was meant to live. That life includes sharing my story of overcoming and helping you also find better, safer solutions to overcome your daily struggles.

Are you ready to live empowered to be your own best advocate? Let's chat.

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